Rights and the law
The law around donor conception and surrogacy can be complex. Some rights and responsibilities relate to you as the parent, some relate to donor conceived children and adults and some relate to donors.
The law around donor conception and surrogacy can be complex. Some rights and responsibilities relate to you as the parent, some relate to donor conceived children and adults and some relate to donors.
If you conceived in a licensed clinic in the UK and had a baby, that fact and details about the donor will have been recorded by the Human Fertilisation and Embryology Authority (HFEA) the government regulator, and be held in their Register. Depending on the year you conceived, you and your child will have certain rights to some of the information they hold.
The details of children, and their donors, conceived outside of licensed clinic premises won’t appear on the Register held by the HFEA. People who are making private arrangements and conceiving at home will need to make their own plans for how to record any details and will need to decide how to manage information sharing.
One advantage of using a donor who is known to you is that you and your children may be able to have considerable information, and possibly contact, before a child reaches 18, including contact with half siblings. Of course, this would all depend on the agreement made between the parent and donor and we know that those agreements can vary enormously, from regular contact to no contact at all.
If you are considering this private route, we would highly recommend spending time getting things clear before attempting to get pregnant. Make sure the person you’re entering into this arrangement with is trustworthy and honest. Make sure you’ve had time to get to know them and are certain they are right for this role. Once a baby arrives, this person is connected to you (via the baby) forever. Life will move on and circumstances will change, so it’s important you can communicate well and manage any disagreements or challenges openly and supportively in the future.
We would also recommend getting counselling or has spent time speaking with knowledgable people to be sure everyone in the arrangement has thought it through.
Finally, we would strongly recommend drawing up an agreement between you and the donor. Although it may not be enforcable in law, at least it states clearly what everyone’s intentions were at the start. It is also a useful document to refer to if there are disagreements or changes of circumstance in the future. It’s worth adding in something about how you might negotiate a situation where you don’t agree on something – you might bring in a friend or family member to help mediate, for example.
The details of any children conceived outside of the UK won’t appear on the Register held by the HFEA.
Any records of treatments, donors and resulting DC children will be held according to the laws of the country where the fertility procedure took place or the protocols of the clinic. Some countries only offer anonymous donation and there is no right to information about the donor or any half siblings. However, some countries, even if they don’t allow information about the donor to be shared, will allow half sibling information and/or connections. It’s worth clarifying both with the clinic and with any government bodies what the actual law says with regard to your rights and what is prohibited.
This government organisation was set up in August 1991 to regulate all UK fertility clinics and keep a Register of births and donor information. There is a lot of great information on their website which is worth exploring. You’ll find details about your rights if you conceived (or are planning to conceive) in the UK, or if you are a UK donor who donated to a UK clinic (or is thinking of donating), or are a donor conceived person who was conceived in the UK.
https://www.hfea.gov.uk/donation/donors/rules-around-releasing-donor-information/