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Stories, insights and expertise

Join the DCN 2026 online conference on 17 October for a great programme of speakers from the comfort of your own home. We’ll be hearing personal stories, expert discussion, a DCP experience of late discovery, and more. Tickets are just £45 for members, or £75 for non-members including a conference ticket and 6 months’ DCN membership. Ticket sales close 15 October.

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‘My Donor Sibling Club’

Available now in the DCN bookshop!

 

Through simple language and fun illustrations, this book helps young children understand the connection they share with donor siblings who are growing up in different families.  Written by Sharon Leya and illustrated by Janne Maru, it encourages confidence and conversation while recognising that families can be connected in many different ways.

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Getting Started

Thinking about using a donor?

If you’re thinking about using donor conception, we know you’ll have lots of questions. This event is the perfect place to start getting answers. Speakers include a donor conceived person and parents via donor conception plus an extended session with an embryologist so you can ask medical questions.

 

In-person event: London, 21 November 2026

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Join us for support, information and community

We have a huge range of resources and services that we provide through a membership subscription.

We keep our fees low to ensure we’re accessible to all donor conception families and whatever your circumstances we look forward to welcoming you into our community!

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Parent to a child at primary school?

Our Primary School Resources pack contains practical tools to help you, your child and their teacher feel prepared for conversations about donor conception at school. 

 

📖 £8 PDF or £12 printed pack

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We are the Donor Conception Network

Parent-led and child-focused, we have been supporting donor conception families for over 30 years.

We’re a supportive charity network providing information, support and community for those building, or thinking about building, their family through donor conception.

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Considering egg, sperm, double or embryo donation? 

Looking for information or support? Feeling alone?

If you’re thinking about using donor conception or are already having treatment, whether in the UK or abroad, we’re here to offer support, information and a community of families in a similar situation. We can help you think through your questions and concerns; just click on the section below that fits your family type to get details aimed more specifically at you and your family.

Already a parent? 

Looking for help with telling your child about their conception?

We know it can be daunting to tell your child that they are donor conceived. We believe that openness is best for the child and for the whole family and have 30 years’ experience helping families to think through how and when to share their family’s story. We have books, workshops and online chats to help you navigate these conversations. We also have specific guidance for people with older children who haven’t been told yet, as well as opportunities for children to meet others made ‘just like them’. Choose your family type from the options below to find out more.

Featured events

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Our Story

One of our bestsellers, ‘Our Story’ is a range of books aimed at young children aged 3-6.  They provide a simple introduction to donor conception in age-appropriate language. We have nearly 40 different versions covering a wide range of families. We even have books for donors to help them explain to their own children.

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Upcoming events

Oct

13

Solo parents to children in primary school (approximately 6-12 years old)

This is a DCN chat for solo mums or dads with children at primary school ages. DCN Chat is a peer support online get-together. This DCN Chat will be hosted by Stefanie, solo mum to one child. All our DCN Chat facilitators are members themselves, and hosting the chat as individuals. This is not a professionally led or educational event. Join us for a supportive space to talk to others in similar situations. If you find that you need further more professional support, please don’t hesitate to contact the DC Network office on enquiries@dcnetwork.org

Oct

14

Half sibling discussion

This DCN Chat is aimed at discussing the pros and cons of taking steps to identify genetic siblings. We will offer a space to deliberate about the merits and pitfalls of this and what possible implications doing so/or not do so might have on you and your child. The chat will be facilitated by Adrienne, who is a solo mum with a child born in 2020. This forum is for discussing the topic, rather than a ‘how to’. ** Because of the nature of the conversation we ask that participants are particularly careful not to share identifying details of their donor.

Oct

17

Workshop: Telling & Talking (solo mum and two-mum families)

This workshop is for parents of donor-conceived children aged 0-7 years. Not sure how to begin a conversation with your child about their donor conception story? Maybe you’re unsure about whether telling is the right thing to do? Or perhaps you’re concerned about who to tell and not tell in your life? Our Telling & Talking workshop is designed specifically with your needs and questions in mind. It provides a safe and confidential space for you to explore the benefits of telling and how to get started. This workshop is equally appropriate whether you had treatment in the UK or abroad, with a known, identifiable or anonymous donor or if your treatment involved surrogacy. You may be wondering how to start talking to your child about their donor-conceived origins, or you may have already begun this process and would like to explore what may come up in the future. As a single or lesbian woman, we recognise that your experiences are different from the time your pregnancy becomes public knowledge, and that attending our workshop even before your baby is born might be helpful for you. All of our single women and lesbian couples’ workshops have a small number of places for pregnant women.

Oct

17

2026 Online Conference

Join us for our 2026 online members’ conference! Building on the success of our London conference in the spring, we’ll be looking again at the theme of telling and talking about donor conception – not just with children, but with family, friends and the wider world. We’re looking forward to an informative day of expert talks, personal stories and practical guidance. As an online event, it’s easier than ever to fit the conference around your schedule. Tickets start from just £35 and, if you can’t attend live, you’ll receive a watch-again link so you can catch up in your own time. **Our fantastic programme includes:** * Parent Panel – Anita, Colum and Jane will be sharing their experiences of telling their children and talking with others about donor conception * Donor Conceived Perspective – DC triplet Rebecca Coxon will be talking about her complex story of family secrets and the impact of late telling * Telling and Talking Challenges – Astrid Indekeu and Jane Ellis explore some of the more difficult scenarios parents can find themselves in with regard to telling and talking (e.g. SEN children, divorce) * Elaborative Reminiscing – Javiera Navarro-Marshall will be presenting recent research on how sharing the family story (telling and talking) can help build autobiographical memories and identity development in children The event will be a webinar so attendees won’t be visible to each other and it will be hosted by Mark, one of our Telling & Talking workshop facilitators and parent through donor conception. **How much does it cost?** Early bird tickets for the online conference start at £35 for members. If you’re not a member, we have a special ticket for you which includes 6 months’ of DCN membership and this ticket costs £75. After 17 September, tickets will cost £45 and £85 for members and non-members respectively. **When and where is the conference?** The conference is on Saturday 17th October and is being held in the afternoon to make it more accessible to those outside the UK and those who have activities on a Saturday morning. The webinar runs from 2-5.30pm with an optional bonus Meet & Connect session from 5.30-6pm for those who’d like to turn cameras on and meet others. It’ll take place online via Zoom but we know that life gets busy so we’re also offering a watch-again link for two weeks if you can’t join us on the day. Please note that the Meet & Connect session won’t be recorded. **Who is it for?** It’s appropriate whether you’re at the early stages of considering donor conception or have children already. It will also be useful for professionals working in a field connected to donor conception who would like to better understand this way of building a family. **Not had children yet?** If you haven’t had children yet, you might also want to consider our in-person event in London aimed at prospective parents [Getting Started 21 November 2026](https://bookwhen.com/dcn-events/e/ev-sa984-20261121110000). **Media at our conferences** It’s really important to us that our conferences and events provide a safe, confidential space for us to discuss what can be very personal matters. We therefore do not allow journalists or media to attend unless they are joining in a personal capacity as a parent or prospective parent via donor conception or are a donor conceived adult. Everything discussed within our events is confidential and may not be reported or shared outside of the event.

Oct

18

Women in same-sex couples

This is a DCN chat for women in same-sex couples, prospective and parents alike. DCN Chat is a peer support online get-together. This DCN Chat will be co-hosted by two volunteers: Siska and Anoushka. Come and join us for a great opportunity to meet others in the group, discuss shared topics around parenthood through donor conception in a two-mum family. All are welcome, at any stage – prospective and parents alike.

Find exclusive content in our Members’ area

DCN members enjoy access to a dedicated area packed with tailored resources – videos, guides, magazines, research insights, and more – all specially selected with our members in mind.

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About the Donor Conception Network 

They say it takes a village to raise children. Well, sometimes it takes a village to help you even contemplate that journey.

We’re a supportive charity network of over 2,200, mainly UK-based, families with children conceived with donated sperm, eggs or embryos, those thinking about or undergoing donor conception procedures and donor conceived people. We provide support, information and a community of families in a similar situation.

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♡ Donate today 

We are a small charity and are funded by membership fees and donations. If you would like to support us, your donation would be greatly appreciated and will help us support the next generation of donor conception families.

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News & personal stories

Read personal stories from donor conception families and donor conceived people, our recommended books, news and more...

Articles

Why do donors withdraw consent?

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Calling for help

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Why 50 families is still too many

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New to the DCN bookshop – 'Later Telling'

Personal stories

Noodle Granny

Articles

The case of donor 7069

Personal stories

Donna's story

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New resources to help you navigate online DNA testing 

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What can we learn from the world of adoption?

Personal stories

Tom and Ben's path to parenthood

Personal stories

‘I wish you knew’ by solo mum Anita

Personal stories

Sienna's story of becoming an egg donor

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Our flagship London conference

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Bringing donor conceived people into the conversation

News

DCN statement on File on 4 programme on Northern Cyprus – updated 18 August 2026

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Known donation – is it the ideal option?

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Truth, lies and donor deception

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DCN statement on sperm donor with rare cancer-causing gene

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Choosing the unregulated route

News

Your Story, Your Language: ‘Our Story’ is now available in Welsh!

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Seed or sperm? Building confidence through language

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Record keeping, incorrect data and responsibility

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Telling older children

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What about the men?

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Processing grief

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Why embryo donation is a little different

Pick of the month

How family bonds affect donor-conceived teens' identity journey

News

DCN statement about 23andMe filing for bankruptcy

Articles

Our volunteers are our frontline

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What is a 'real' parent?

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Telling your child: do you ever feel ready?

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Going solo – the opportunities and the challenges

Pick of the month

Experiences of single motherhood using a donor (The Guardian)

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No models, only examples

Recommended reads

'Relative Strangers' by Petra Nordqvist and Carol Smart

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Expenses, compensation and new fees for UK donors

Pick of the month

Three tales of late motherhood (Metro)

Personal stories

A personal story of blood and belonging

Articles

The Young Adult Study: How are donor conceived people doing?

Recommended reads

‘Inheritance' by Dani Shapiro

Pick of the month

A cautionary tale of the consequences of deceit and a lack of legal protection

News

PET launches new Fertility Policy Tracker

Pick of the month

An ‘indie’ sperm donor’s perspective (heyreprotech.com)

Pick of the month

‘Ask a therapist’ guidance on sharing information with a disinterested child (US Donor Conceived Council)

News

DCN director Nina Barnsley wins lifetime achievement award

News

DCN statement on new Netflix documentary, ‘The Man with 1000 Kids’

Pick of the month

Parenting a Donor-Conceived Child – 8 Things I've Learned

Pick of the month

The challenges of buying sperm

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