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Anonymous donation – for those who don’t have ID release or known donors

This DCN Chat is aimed at discussing anonymous donation and how that is experienced for us as donation recipients. The chat will be facilitated ...

30 Mar 20:00-21:00

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This DCN Chat is aimed at discussing anonymous donation and how that is experienced for us as donation recipients. The chat will be facilitated by Valentina, DCN member, and mum through egg donation to two children through anonymous donation.

Please be aware that the Anonymous donation chatโ€™s purpose is to understand the meaning that is given to the anonymous donation and how it is managed by those who are already parents. Prospective parents can join the call, however the main goal is to offer an opportunity to talk through the meaning that recipient parents give to the anonymous donation, rather than explore whether this is the best route for prospective parents, which would be best done in the thinker/tryer spaces.

This DCN Chat is to offer a space to talk about experiences. This is not an educational event and rather, is offered as a peer-support opportunity.

This is an online Zoom meetup, therefore, you will be sent a link to join the Zoom chat to the email you supply upon registration. Please read the code of conduct in the confirmation email to ensure you are aware of the expectations for the meetup.

A reminder that any information shared on this sign up form will be shared with the DCN Chat facilitator to manage the event.

This event is for DCN members only. Please login or join now.

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