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Miscarriage and other challenges during treatment in the donor conception journey

This DCN chat specifically for members who have experienced miscarriage following donor conception or have come up against other significant challenges which have resulted ...

17 Nov 12:30-13:45

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This DCN chat specifically for members who have experienced miscarriage following donor conception or have come up against other significant challenges which have resulted in multiple failed DC attempts.
In recognition of the particularly sensitive nature of this topic, the chat/group will be facilitated by Julie, one of our DCN Professional Members, who is a counsellor experienced in working with fertility issues and donor conception. However, like other DCN chats, it is intended to offer an opportunity to share experiences, feelings and challenges with a view to creating a mutually supportive space.

This is an online Zoom meetup, therefore, you will be sent a link to join the Zoom chat to the email you supply upon registration. Please read the code of conduct in the confirmation email to ensure you are aware of the expectations for the meetup.

A reminder that any information shared on this sign up form will be shared with the DCN Chat facilitator to manage the event.

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